During dating, which is easier to spot, an unsuitable female or an unsuitable male?

I have to agree that men are generally easier to spot a real dog. This clearly is not always the case - but men generally are all looking for the same thing and the only question I have is if he is interested in MORE than just that - if he wants to also be friends and has some of the same interests I do chances are it might work out. I personally have to disagree with your thought about PMS - I've never had it and at this point in my life I'm sure I never will. My exes would agree with that too - I'm the one that ended things not them (and I have trouble getting rid of them!!).